It was the first day of Kindergarten for my first born. I was the only one who was able to care for him, feed him, teach him, etc... Or so I thought. I took my stay at home mama job serious. I mean this is our future and he is not a baby, he is a young adult. Someday he will have to get up without me, feed himself, bathe himself, earn money and have a family. He was ready but I was not.
People come in and out of your life at different times for different reasons. I’d like to change that first word to “Moms." Yes, Moms come in and out of our lives at different times for different reasons. It was 13 years ago and I was sitting at my kitchen table, our son Anthony was 2 and our daughter Gianna was just born. My husband and I had lived 4 hours from family. I had no one. I felt alone. My husband had recently taken a new position and he was working what felt like 20 hours a da...
So you daughter walks in, hands you her phone to look at and cries, "MOM! They are doing it again!" Pranking, comments, teaming up, taking pics of texts and showing others. Trying to alienate your girl. And now you are pissed. I mean really mad. So much that you want to walk into that school and go all WWE on this girl, her little friends and her little dog too. Calm down mama and listen up. I was there. This is probably the best thing that could ever happen to your girl. She is now pr...
DOPE...... Probably one of the best songs and drugs I have ever listened to and taken in my life! ("She's Dope" to be exact by BBD) I hated drugs, I used think they kill people but I love DOPE. I had always liked DOPE but I wanted more. A lot more. Like TONS! Ok, hold your horses. Did I get you? LOL. I hope so. Almost like when you call an answering machine and it sounds like a real person and you are talking back until you hear the beep and you think...DAMN..... they got me! It's ha...
Have you ever "Unscheduled" your summer? It was a first for us. And I have to say the pros out-weighed the cons. Don't get me wrong, sitting around can cause some arguments. (And it has...just last night!) Typically, We are an active family. I mean REALLY active. From sunrise to sunset we are moving. I rarely sit. So much that when I do sit, the kids ask me if I am sick. Not kidding!
Hey Mama......Check out these scenarios: 2 friends try out for a sports team. 2 friends try out for a play. 2 friends take the same exam. The other girl, not yours, makes the team, gets the role and aces her exam. Are you happy for her? Is your girl happy for her? Do you have any resentment or a bit of jealously?
Me: "What is in his pants?" "Is that?" "Why is her shirt almost at her boobs?" Still Me: "Is she trying to get a deal wth Sports Illustrated SwimSuit Edition." I just can't. So I want to share my story with all of this in the hopes of helping just one mama and daughter out there. We have been trying social media and I HATE IT. For me, I'd rather just not let them have it. But then my "brother from another mother" (joke!) said to me: "Here's the thing Nicole, go through it with her. G
"They are perfect," I say in a stern voice making eye contact with the nurse practitioner. She turns her computer my way to look at her fancy growth chart graphs and I repeat in a different way, "Looks like they are exactly where they are suppose to be!" She looks at me and gets my "subtle" hint. You see, I don't care what those charts say. I H-A-T-E those charts. Any of you feel the same? Rewind 30+ years ago. Every year, the Dr. would say the same thing to my mother, "Lorraine, the c
I can still hear my mom singing that song to me. I was a Brownie and I can remember sitting in the church basement for my meeting with my little brown dress and bonnet with those bobby pins dug into my head because my hair was so thin. (On a side note, one year I sold the most cookies, I forgot what I won but I knocked on every door and my mom delivered every single last box with me. I had bragging rights that year.) Here's a huge lesson I want for my daughter: We will not do "Flavor o